Funny online dating openers
I don't have any "proven" first messages, but one of my friends is successful and he just writes, "hey" or "sup" in his first message. I'm black and the majority of the women on each site weren't. However, if you're doing mass messaging like I do then you simply can't take the time do break down each girl's profile unless you want to make an afternoon out of it.It's the second message that he uses to really get them interested. One that ALWAYS ensured a reply back was "I hope you aren't racist". I guess they always replied so that they could validate themselves somewhat so that they don't feel guilty or racist if they didn't reply. The line I've been using to message chicks is: "Hey I checked out your profile and you seem cool. " By saying I checked out their profile it implies that I did actually check them out which I didn't, I just look at their pictures. To be clear, an “online dating opener” is the content of your very first message you send to a woman online. There seems to be a huge amount of concern and angst among guys about the “right” online dating opener to use. If you do them wrong, then yes, it will damage response. (Most of the openers I send, and I have tested many, are just two sentences long.) 2. Do those four things above and you’ve instantly wiped out 95% of the problems guys have with online dating openers. Therefore, as long as it’s clear that most women receiving your opener are looking at your profile, your opener is “working”. Online dating openers are not as important as you think they are. I’m not going to give you word-for-word examples here, but they essentially say in two sentences that she’s welcome to message me back if she likes. A woman will message you or not based on your profile, not your opener. It’s your profile that will get her to actually message you back.There are openers for a variety of different situations and types of girls.“Well, you seem like a potentially fun and interesting girl.;)” Anyway, You seem pretty adventurous, so tell me this…if you could grab your bags and go on a spontaneous South American adventure, what experiences would be a Must before you’d even think about going home?
Yes, I have seen these guys pull down larger , but in terms of actual first dates that happen and lays that happen, these guys are usually no better off than anyone else with decent online game.
And rightfully so, because getting responses from the caliber of women you really want to meet is generally the biggest hurdle you face.